She mailed me earrings I never asked for - two tiny plastic dogs on gold hooks. I wore them to a job interview and got the job. I still think that was her doing.

She wore every color at once and made it look like the only reasonable choice. She built earrings out of things the rest of us threw away - beads, bottle caps, a plastic dinosaur, once a whole tiny chandelier. She loved her dogs with an intensity that embarrassed everyone but the dogs. If you're here, she picked you too.
Celebration of life, Saturday, September 12, at 2 pm.
The Marigold Room, 418 Hollis Street.
Wear every color at once. Bring a story, and a dog if you have one.
In lieu of flowers, give in her name.
If you would like to give something, here are three suggestions.
A volunteer-run rescue in New Jersey for small dogs and cats, placing them through foster care and adoption.
give →A New York nonprofit that pairs writers one-to-one with mentors, centering people sidelined by gender and gender identity.
give →A collectively run, bilingual bookshop in Washington Heights, with author events and programs for young readers.
give →She mailed me earrings I never asked for - two tiny plastic dogs on gold hooks. I wore them to a job interview and got the job. I still think that was her doing.
She'd text me a photo of a thrift store rack at 11pm with no caption. That was the whole conversation and it was enough. I keep opening the thread.
When she was seven she made me a bracelet out of paperclips and glitter glue and told me it was worth a hundred dollars. I have it in my jewelry box. She was right.